May is not just for Mother’s Day, it is an entire month dedicated to all the mothers of the world; including single mothers
Single mums should get a medal just for existing. Raising a child (or children) on your own can’t be easy. You have little support, you’re juggling multiple roles, and the obligations seem endless.
Embracing Mother’s Month as a single mum can be a beautiful opportunity to honour your strength. Fill your own cup by following our Single Mum’s Guide to Celebrating Mother’s Month.
Here are a few ideas:
Celebrate Yourself
Plan a special day just for you. Whether it’s a quiet morning with coffee and a book, a spa night at home, or ordering your favourite takeaway, treat yourself with the same love you give others.
You can do this with or without your kids, but being a mother doesn’t always come with paid time off. So if you feel the need to spend some much needed ‘me time’ just on your own, then do it!
Let Mother’s Month give you the permission slip to spend the day off from motherhood. Of course, it goes without saying, all mothers love their kids. But it’s also a good idea to take this time to rediscover who you are outside of your domestic duties.
Throw away the guilt and send your kids off to daycare or their grandparents. They will know how to entertain themselves while you’re gone.
Create New Traditions
If you simply can’t do anything without your kids, there are still ways to celebrate Mother’s Month with your little ones in mind.
Make May your month of ‘us’ time. You can craft together and make some ‘mummy and me’ artwork. Perhaps you can bake something fun together (whilst teaching your kids a thing or two about valuable kitchen skills).
You can plant flowers or start a garden. Or you can tailor something specific that is unique to your and your family.
These traditions can deepen your bond and create lasting memories.
Reflect and Honour Your Journey
You may be feeling down throughout your journey of motherhood. You may have believed some unkind thoughts. Mother’s Month calls you to begin the process of healing these wounds and embarking on a path of self-discovery.
You can start by writing yourself a letter of appreciation. Acknowledge the challenges you’ve overcome and the love you give every day as a mother. You could even make a scrapbook or vision board celebrating your life and dreams.
After all, you too are a human being with your own desires and goals. Motherhood is beautiful, but it’s also important to rediscover the joy and power in the other parts that make up your sense of self. Your identity. Your soul.
When your entire self is nourished, you become that much better at being a parent and that is all any of us can hope for.
Connect With Other Mums
Being a single mum can be lonely. Perhaps it is time for you to start or find your own community of strong women. This may just be the beginning of a new ‘sisterhood’ where you no longer have to go through your struggles alone.
With so many online resources these days, it’s almost too easy to find like-minded individuals. There’s Facebook, Instagram, Reddit and now, TikTok, one of the most popular social media apps to date.
Reach out to other single mums for a brunch, picnic, or virtual chat. Sharing stories and support can be incredibly uplifting. You can make future Mother’s Months a special annual occasion just for you and your growing community of single mums.
Celebrating the Month of Mothers
Mother’s Month doesn’t have to begin and end with Mother’s Day only. It can be an entire month with many activities and events planned.
It’s an important time to remind yourself and other single mothers of the sacrifice, duty and love that you have given to raise your children.
Whether it’s a solo escapade, a whole family outing with the kids, or a sisterhood siesta with other single mums, let’s make the Month of Mothers something to truly cherish for years to come.
Disclaimer: The information provided in this article is for informational purposes only and should not be considered as medical advice from Mamahood. For any health-related concerns, it is advisable to consult with a qualified healthcare professional or medical practitioner.