The first trimester marks the beginning of an amazing journey.
From your first week of pregnancy, your baby starts their life out as nothing more than a cluster of cells at this point. But as time goes on, they grow bigger and bigger.
Most of what you go through in this period will be barely noticeable (you may not even realise you’re pregnant until the morning sickness comes).
For new mums, this new experience can definitely be overwhelming. But even if this is your second, third or (insert number) pregnancy, it will still feel like it’s the first time.
Here’s what to expect on your early weeks of being a mother.
A Physical Transformation
As soon as conception begins, your body begins its great work of creating new life without you even noticing.
You may not feel anything in this time even as your uterus works invisibly behind the scenes to support your pregnancy. In fact, you may mistake the early pregnancy signs as nothing more than PMS.
Pregnancy symptoms don’t typically show until week 4 or week 6 for most women. If this is your first pregnancy, you may be confused about how doctors measure pregnancy age.
Typically, your pregnancy officially ‘starts’ on the day of your last period (before you’re even technically pregnant). Usually the entire process from menstruation to ovulation to conception occurs within 3 to 4 weeks.
Your 4th week of pregnancy is when you are technically pregnant. However, most women do not start getting tested until after that, when the symptoms really start kicking in.
At this time, your hormone levels (most notably hCG) would have risen enough to be detected by a pregnancy test. These hormones include progesterone, oestrogen and others, are crucial for maintaining your pregnancy.
Hormonal fluctuations are the first ‘invisible’ symptoms before the real physical symptoms appear.
Here are some common physical changes:
- Fatigue: Pregnancy eats up a lot of energy, as your body accustoms to the new requirement, you may feel tired and sluggish.
- Morning sickness: A misnomer, morning sickness refers to nausea and vomiting that can happen any time of day, although more frequently after waking up.
- Breast soreness: To prepare for breastfeeding, your body increases blood flow to your breasts which may make them feel tender and sensitive to the touch.
- Frequent urination: While not a common symptom until the later part of your first trimester, your growing uterus will slowly start pushing down on your bladder, increasing the urge to go to the bathroom.
Despite how difficult these symptoms can be, they are an undeniable sign that your body is creating a baby, and that’s a beautiful journey for any would-be mother to experience.
An Emotional Rollercoaster
Due to the rise in hormones, you can expect to go through a whirlwind of emotions.
Don’t be surprised if your mood swings get a little out of hand. One moment you may feel like you’re on cloud nine, the next you may feel so depressed you can barely get out of bed.
You may also feel extra irritable. However, it does vary between women. Most expectant mothers go through their pregnancy with barely an outbursts or breakdowns.
But it’s important to acknowledge that a lot of the emotional hurdles are not just from hormonal fluctuations alone. After all, you’re about to embark on a life-changing voyage.
A journey that is bound to be full of doubts, fears, and insecurities
It’s important to remember that all your emotions valid. Surrounding yourself with a circle of supportive loved ones is crucial for ensuring the rest of your pregnancy is full of nothing but acceptance and reassurance.
Making Changes
For many women, getting pregnant signals not only a physical and emotional transformations, but also external changes.
If you’ve already visited a doctor to confirm your pregnancy, you would have been given that little ‘baby book’ to track the progress and health of your baby.
Your doctor will also advise you on the do’s and don’ts of pregnancy.
These include major adjustments to your normal everyday lifestyle and choices. After all, you’re not just living for yourself anymore, but for the small life growing inside you.
Here are some small changes that you will have to accommodate as you take one step closer to being a mother:
- Education: You will have to learn many things throughout your pregnancy journey. Stay up-to-date with pregnancy apps.
- Nutrition: Adjusting your diet to include more healthy, nutritious foods can be tough for some people. Ensuring your baby has all the vitamins and minerals they need to grow will be your utmost priority.
- Fitness: On the topic of health, pregnant mums have to exercise too. Gentle activities like walking or prenatal yoga can improve your energy and mood as well as help strengthen your body for labour.
- Well-being: You will face a lot of challenges and symptoms as you go through your pregnancy. Morning sickness, swollen feet, the list goes on and on. It’s important to ensure lots of moral support and to take care of your mental health at this point.
- Intuition: Learning about pregnancy is paramount when you’re expecting. But learning to trust your maternal instincts is equally important. There’s nothing like a mother’s gut instinct to help you navigate the next nine months. Trust your body if something feels wrong.
Slow and Steady: Embarking on Your First Trimester
Despite the physical and emotional demands of the first trimester, it’s also a period of wonder.
No matter how small, each week brings you closer and closer to your little one. New milestones are around every corner. From seeing them on a sonogram to hearing their heartbeat for the first time.
Celebrate these achievements because they mark incredible progress in your journey towards motherhood.
If you are open to it, keep a pregnancy journal to document your experience as an expectant mum, especially if this is your first time. You can later look back and reminisce on the incredible odds you went through to bring your child into the world.
Your first trimester lays the groundwork for the rest of your pregnancy and is an important time.
So, take it easy, manage your stress and enjoy the ride, it will definitely be a rollercoaster.
To know what’s waiting for you after your first trimester, don’t forget to read our Second Trimester Guide!
Good luck, mums!
Disclaimer: The information provided in this article is for informational purposes only and should not be considered as medical advice from Mamahood. For any health-related concerns, it is advisable to consult with a qualified healthcare professional or medical practitioner.
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