Sex is a controversial topic, and many feel embarrassed when talking about it, especially to family members.
Often, you hear parents talk about their children’s first steps than it is to hear about a child’s sexual development. Well, this is understandable because it is often seen as a personal aspect. Yet, this lack of general knowledge can lead a child’s interest and curiosity to nudity and sex.
Talking To Children About Sex
As soon as your kids start talking, you can teach them the names of their body parts. Teach them about respecting other people and talk about their feelings.
Talking to your kids about sex and relationships is a lifelong conversation. Do it a little bit at a time, and it helps your kids process your values and information over time. Having regular conversations about it also sends the message that these topics are essential and is a normal part of life.
When Should I Start Talking To My Children About Sex
Kids and teens who have regular conversations about sex with their parents or caregivers are less likely to have risks with their sexual health. So, it is never too late to start talking to your kids about it.
Don’t worry if your kids are in their teen years and you haven’t started talking with them about this topic yet. It’s never too late. Don’t tell everything to them at once because things can be overwhelming. The most important thing is that you make it very clear to them that they can ask you questions or talk to you without fear, embarrassment or judgement.
Sexual Development
Don’t be alarmed or surprised if your child has an interest or curiosity in sexual issues; this is entirely normal. Usually, if they are in year 5 and 6, children will become embarrassed about being naked in front of their parents. They will be curious about gender differences, sexual intercourse and pregnancy, and may discuss among their peers.
What Can I Do To Help My Kids Stay Safe And Healthy
The best way to keep your kids safe and healthy is to stay involved and to set boundaries.
- Ask them about their day and how they feel.
- Get to know who they hang out with and their parents
- Encourage them in their hobbies and interests.
- Always be open to their questions
- Always be alert and aware of which adults are around when your kids are out or at other houses.
- Sometimes, ask them what they are doing online
- Set rules and curfews and check on them regularly
- Get involved in their sports and activities
- Make sure that there are no drugs or alcohol allowed if your teen is going for parties
Don’t let them stay out too late at night
Remember, if you are unapproachable and you that you think that this isn’t a topic you want to talk to your kids about, your child will turn to other sources of information that may not be reliable. Make sure that you talk to your kids about this so that they can be safe and healthy.
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