In the Asian culture, it seems like something completely normal to move in with the parents-in-law after marriage. This is because, in our culture, the eldest sons are always in charge of taking care of their parents, along with their wives. Here are some of the advantages and disadvantages of living with your in-laws.\r\n\r\n\r\nThe Advantages\r\n\r\n \tThe kids will know their grandparents\r\n\r\nIt would be good if the kids get to form good relationships with their grandparents. Most modern families only go back to their hometowns during the holidays and that\u2019s the only time the children get to spend some time with their grandparents.\r\n\r\n \tYou\u2019ll get parenting help and advice\r\n\r\nThe early days of parenting for new parents can be very tough and it will do you some good to stay with the in-laws. Most grandparents are more than willing to look after your children for you. Having your mother-in-law with you would save you a lot of trouble as she\u2019s been through the process before.\r\n\r\n \tBabysitter available at any time\r\n\r\nWhen you live with the in-laws, that means you can continue your working life without worrying about your baby being in the hands of a stranger. You\u2019ll be able to sleep in peace at night, knowing someone will be there for your baby if they wake up crying in the middle of the night.\r\n\r\n \tMore help, less burden\r\n\r\nHaving your in-laws around would also mean extra sets of hands to help out with the household chores. At least someone is going to do the cooking and the cleaning while you and your husband are away at work. That gives you more time to enjoy some rest.\r\n\r\n \tFinancial benefits\r\n\r\nNothing is cheap nowadays and living with your in-laws can help you save a lot of money. With them taking care of your child and the chores, you would be able to save money on childcare and eating out.\r\n\r\n\r\nThe Cons\r\n\r\n \tNo privacy \r\n\r\nLiving with the in-laws would mean no public display of affection allowed even in your own house or chilling in the living room with your shorts on while enjoying some beer on the weekend. Constantly not being able to have some privacy or space to be yourself can be a psychological burden to carry.\r\n\r\n \tUnsolicited lessons or advice\r\n\r\nAdvice can come in handy when it is needed. But that isn\u2019t the case when your mother-in-law is always breathing down your neck. You\u2019ll be receiving a lot of unwanted advice on how you should eat, how much sleep you need, how you should dress or behave and more. It gets worse when the generation gap and difference in living experience causes their advice to not be applicable to every situation you\u2019re in.\r\n\r\n \tTension between mother and daughter-in-law\r\n\r\nWhen your mother-in-law has had experience in taking care of a family and a household, they tend to feel superior and may find things to criticise in everything you do. To please her, you probably won\u2019t be able to do things the way you want. It can be easy for your in-laws to interfere in your life when you\u2019re living together, but this can cause negative emotions to rise.\r\n\r\n \tDisagreements over how you should raise your kids\r\n\r\nHaving your in-laws around to help with parenting duties might include a lot of uncalled-for advice on how you should raise your kids based on her experience. However, what your mother-in-law experienced from a few decades ago may not be applicable to today\u2019s standards. Due to this, relationships can become stressful and broken when living in the same house.\r\n\r\nFor more similar articles, please visit Mamahood.com.sg.